The Chasing Game
which says :
"if you want to win a girl's heart,woo her.. then after quite some time of doing the chasing, leave her aside.. when the time comes, she will capitulate herself to u..
as simple as that..!"
smiling to myself thinking of wether this is applicable ....(of course my answer would be as simple as YES)..i don't know about the rest of you...
A guy friend once told me most guys are determined whenever they like someone, that they would do anything or try many different ways to get her..or atleast her attention...up to the point where the girl admits bluntly saying "maybe we should just be friends"....
in other way saying that...unless u tell them ...they won't stop trying...
the weird thing is....as for girls in general....if they do not feel the same way towards the guy...they will eventually try to hint their ways into telling them...not by verbal hindrance...
and guys won't take actions for a NO answer ....they will keep trying their best until they actually get a "NO" answer....
but in other case....
let's say a girl befriends a guy...and they get really close ....closer than just "normal friends"...acting like an item whenever they go out....
the GUYS always just go along without defining the situation..."sure..i like holding your hands while we walk together....".."i love your attention...talking to you on the phone everynight"....
but nothing on "yes we are in a relationship" or what not....
while the girls always wonder ..."hmm what is this?...what kind of thing are we in right now?...how's the situation?"....can you make clear to me what state we are in right now..cause it's rather confusing"....
so the situation is rather VICE VERSA ......
in terms of "refusal" :
woman : hint them .."tolonglah faham-faham sendiri"
man : try until they say no
in terms of "making it official" :
woman : i need to ask him..."so ..kite ni macam mana?"...contoh la..(not me OK!)
man : "faham-faham sendiri je lar"...kalau tak faham...aku leh menggatal ngan perempuan lain
is this making any sense?...
hahaha....
korang faham-faham sendiri je lar...malas aku nak explain dah....
aku ni kan pening skit....
good night....